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SOME people will accuse me of playing with fire. Next summer, I am due to marry Nic, my boyfriend of two and a half years. We have plenty in common, get on famously, and I have a strong desire to kiss him whenever I see him. But recent events have left a niggling doubt in my mind.
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It started with a recent paper I read. It suggested that taking hormonal contraceptives (as I have for many years) affects your sense of smell, which is a key factor in finding Mr Right ().
Then I received a press release from a company called , based in Florida, which offers to match couples according to scent-related aspects of their DNA profiles. By hooking you up with your biological match, rather than someone you just get along well with, the company promises a better sex life, more orgasms, a lower risk of cheating on each other, higher fertility and healthier children. Intrigued, I did some research and came across a similar company, , based in Zurich, Switzerland, which also tests couples to determine their genetic compatibility and runs a dating service based on it.
These companiesā claims may seem bold, and at $199 (for singles) and $299 (for couples) for the GenePartner test, and $995 for lifetime membership of ScientificMatch, finding the genetic āoneā isnāt cheap. Nevertheless, the idea is based on good evidence that human attraction is influenced by smell. In 1995, Claus Wedekind at the University of Bern in Switzerland devised his infamous āsweaty T-shirtā experiment, in which he asked women to sniff the T-shirts of similarly aged men and rate their body odours. He found that women preferred the scent of men who had immune systems dissimilar to their own, as measured by genes for the major histocompatibility complex (MHC), which is involved in displaying antigens to immune cells (). Other studies have found that men also prefer women with dissimilar MHC genes, more specifically known as human leukocyte antigen (HLA) genes in humans.
Iāve always liked Nicās smell, but what if Iāve got it wrong? There was only one thing for it: we had to take the test. And in case Nic and I were at risk of spawning a tribe of phlegmy, afflicted runts, I recruited six of my male colleagues to get tested too. If my boyfriend turned out not to be my perfect match, maybe one of them would be.
In the interests of science, I decided to come off the contraceptive pill during the experiment, since that recent paper agrees with what earlier studies have suggested ā that it alters your preference for odours.
I asked both ScientificMatch and GenePartner to compare DNA from myself and Nic. GenePartner also compared my sample with those from my six colleagues. Both companies extract DNA from swabs of cheek cells, then analyse three key MHC or HLA genes. Since we inherit a copy of each gene from each of our parents, six gene variants, or alleles, are analysed, of which there are hundreds of common types. Both companies believe that more dissimilarities predict greater compatibility; GenePartner also factors in the results of its own unpublished study of 420 couples, which found that certain combinations of alleles crop up more frequently than others in successful partnerships.
Two weeks later the results are in. Iām relieved that both companies find Nic and I to be highly compatible, with between 83 and 89 per cent difference in our MHC genes.
āIt seems I may be more genetically compatible with my colleague than my future husbandā
āChances are good that you really enjoy Nicās natural body fragrance, you enjoy a satisfying sex life with him, that the two of you would enjoy a high degree of fertility with each other and that youād have healthy children together,ā says Eric Holzle of ScientificMatch, although he says he wouldnāt match us through his dating site unless we were 100 per cent dissimilar. āThereās also about a 17 per cent chance that you would cheat on Nic at some point during your exclusive relationship together,ā he adds.
Unperturbed, I turn to GenePartnerās analysis: āThis genetic combination is typical of very satisfying relationships,ā the report says. āThe chances are high that [your] intimacy wonāt diminish over time.ā
Good news then, until we read my other test results. It seems that my colleague Rowan may be a better match for me than Nic, having 100 per cent dissimilar genes. āIt is very likely they were interested in each other very early after meeting for the first time,ā says GenePartnerās report. āThe two have very high chances of enjoying a satisfying sex life and having healthy children together, including a higher probability of conceiving a child sooner as well as a lower rate of miscarriages.ā āDo I need to challenge him to a duel?ā asks Nic.
Even more disconcerting for Nic, two other colleagues, including my boss, are as well suited to me as he is (see āSearch for a soulmateā). On closer inspection, though, GenePartnerās results provide some comfort for me and my intended.
Based on its unpublished study of successful combinations, although Nic and I are not 100 per cent compatible, one component of our genetic fingerprint ācomes up in the majorityā of successful couples tested, says Tamara Brown of GenePartner.
On the other hand, the same analysis suggested that for Mike, who shares many genes with me and should therefore feel ālike a family memberā, I may have mixed feelings, because his genetic profile shows a āfairly high general attraction levelā.
To a fair degree my gut feelings towards the volunteers are reflected in the DNA results. The exceptions are Alex, a good match DNA-wise, but who I probably wouldnāt have considered as a date, and Rohan, who I think is attractive, while the results suggest I should think of him more like a brother.
Iām curious to know if my feelings would have been different had I got close enough to my colleagues to give them a good sniff. So I conducted my own version of the sweaty T-shirt experiment, in which I asked each of the volunteers to wear a clean white T-shirt for one day and one night without using any deodorant or aftershave beforehand.
I sniffed the T-shirts without knowing who owned each one, and rated them as pleasant, neutral or unpleasant. I rather liked the smell of the T-shirts worn by Nic, Rowan and Ryan, which tallies with the MHC results, but I also liked the smell of Mike, who Iām neither compatible with nor attracted to. I rated Roger and Alex ā who I am supposedly compatible with ā as neutral. But I did rate the smell of Rohan, who I am genetically incompatible with, as unpleasant.
Confused by the conflicting results, I asked independent experts how seriously they thought I should take my findings. In general, they felt that the MHC tests were harmless enough, but that there isnāt enough evidence about MHC compatibility to use it as a proxy for love and attraction.
āMHC may be important in influencing our partner choice, [but] we have no idea exactly how important that is in relation to other factors,ā says Craig Roberts of the University of Liverpool, UK, who is planning a larger version of my experiment. For example, some studies have suggested that facial symmetry is important, and one even indicated that women prefer the faces of men who are MHC-similar ā contradicting our genetic matchmakersā assumptions ().
Roberts suggests that facial cues may be part of an initial screening process, in which we look for people who are relatively similar to us so we donāt dilute the effect of genes that helped our ancestors to survive. āThen at a more intimate stage, odour helps eliminate those who are too similar,ā he says.
Other studies also suggest that moderate dissimilarity may be preferable to extreme dissimilarity, so by only focusing on partners whose genes are 100 per cent dissimilar the tests ācould wrongly sway your thoughts towards someone you think is a better matchā, says Roberts, āeven though you and your partner might actually be optimally matchedā.
āThe results could sway you towards someone else when you and your partner are perfectly matchedā
Moreover, social factors also play a role in attraction, with people being drawn to those of similar intelligence, education and socio-economic background. āFrom the position weāre in, I donāt think we should be making any kind of recommendation to anybody,ā says Roberts.
Shared passions
Wedekind agrees. āThey claim that the health of babies will be improved if partners have dissimilar MHC,ā he says. āThatās a bold claim.ā For while MHC-linked sexual attraction might have evolved to improve the health of children, Wedekind says it may be no more than a measure to stop us mating with our half-siblings when we lived in smaller social groups and the identity of the father was not always clear. āMHC-linked body odours may just be there to prevent inbreeding,ā Wedekind says.
I was also curious to know what the companies would have advised had Nic and I been biologically incompatible. āWe would never advise you to leave your boyfriend based on our findings,ā says Holzle. āIf youāve got a great relationship with a man who makes you happy, our advice is to cherish that bond and enjoy it to the fullest.ā
Brown agrees. āWeāve seen couples who have [very low compatibility] but have been together for a very long time and they have something, like travelling or hiking, that really binds them. Sometimes I think that the passion they share can compensate for the lack of biological compatibility.ā
Still, while both admit that genetic tests canāt tell you everything, Holzle maintains that they are more useful than standard personality questionnaires alone. āWeāre offering as much as the scientific community has shown us is available,ā he says.
Wedekind agrees that the tests are not without merit. āA main role of dating services is that they help to reduce the possibilities,ā he says. āIf it helps people to find a partner I would be very proud.ā
As for me, Iām taking the results with a pinch of salt ā although I might have felt unnerved had the tests suggested marrying Nic wasnāt such a great idea. I suspect, though, that using DNA to choose a date could be a great leveller, opening up the possibility of meeting people you wouldnāt otherwise have considered. At the very least it would give you something to talk about on a first date.

- Linda Geddes isnāt buying Nic aftershave this year